Halloween
is over for another year, and I’m glad. I must confess it’s no longer my favorite holiday, even though my book Ghost Writer features a ghost. But
as a kid, I loved it.
At
the time I grew up, the celebration was much different than today. For one
thing, our parents made our costumes because no store-bought ones were
available. And I think many of them were better. They were certainly more
creative.
I
was twenty-six months old when my grandfather died four days before Halloween.
No one had thought about a costume, so I was wrapped in a sheet to visit a
couple of the neighbors.
The
next year, my mother outdid herself with one of the cutest costumes ever: Little
Bo Peep. Mom (who didn’t sew) made a pink and blue confection of a skirt. I
wore my own blouse, and my mother trimmed one of my bonnets to match the skirt.
She wrapped one of my great-grandfather’s canes in pink and blue crepe paper
and added a big bow. I carried my stuffed lamb and thought I was the image of
the character in one of my favorite nursery rhymes.
This
costume was eventually worn by several of my cousins and always elicited positive
comments.
In
following years, I was a princess (my favorite), a graduate, and several other
cute and equally creative characters.
I
was raised in a neighborhood that was more like an extended family. Nearly
every house contained kids our age. Most had more than one. We lived in a post-World
War II housing tract, and the whole place was safe. We could go from block to
block, and the families knew each other.
Trick-or-treating
was great. No parental supervision was required. We went out in large groups.
This
was the era of popcorn balls and homemade candy apples. Some families gave purchased
candy, but our treats were most often packaged by the family.
Our
favorite house was a couple of blocks away. All year, the parents put their
pennies in a large fishbowl they kept inside their front door. (Pennies were
used much more frequently at that time, and they were worth a lot more.)
On
Halloween, they’d allow each child to keep as many pennies as they could hold
in one hand. You put the other hand behind your back, then opened your fingers
wide and clutched as many as you could grasp.
The
tricky part was the transfer to your Halloween bag, often a pillowcase.
The
kids with larger hands could hold onto more. Long discussions of strategy preceded
each holiday outing. Some argued for turning your hand up before removing it
from the bowl to balance as many pennies as possible. This strategy was not
always successful, however as if you caught the rim of the bowl, you were
likely to lose your treasure. Others believed in the tight grip method. Still
others claimed a looser grasp would capture more loot.
Whatever
our individual outcome, we all felt richer at the end of the evening. Of
course, this might not be as appealing today. Pennies aren’t worth as much, and
most of us don’t want to be bothered with them. Some merchants don’t even accept
them.
Trick-or-treat
was only one of the Halloween celebrations, though.
The
elementary school held a carnival, usually the Saturday before Halloween.
Everyone, including many of the adults, came in costume. Prizes were given for
the best ones.
Each
group at the school (PTA, Boys Scouts, Girl Scouts, etc.) sponsored a game or
other activity. Some required skill. Others, blind luck.
Our
Girl Scout troop always had the game where you rolled baseballs up an incline,
trying to get them into holes drilled in a large piece of plywood. The number
that went into the holes determined your prize.
Then
there was the fishing booth. You were given a pole with a clothes pin on the end. The line was thrown over a curtain (a painted sheet), and an adult on the other
side attached a prize at random. (Sometimes, the person in back was told the
age and/or gender of the kid so that we’d receive an appropriate prize. Of
course, we were oblivious to this conspiracy.)
All
the kids had to try to win a goldfish. They were kept in small bowls with even
smaller openings. We threw Ping-Pong balls and tried to get one into a bowl.
Most of us were successful and took our new pets home in plastic bags. Of course,
the fish tended to die quickly, but a few survived their trip home to live for a
long time thereafter. One of ours, Goldie, stayed on our coffee table for many years.
Everyone’s
favorite booth was the dunk tank. Most often, the ‘victim’ was one of the older
boys or even one who had moved on to high school. They loved coming back and
enjoyed being dunked.
The
mechanism was connected to a long pole. Baseballs were pitched at a padded target
at the end. If they connected with enough force, the seat fell away, and the ‘victim’
ended up in a large vat of cold water.
Each
year, we had a ‘mystery guest.’ This person was always in disguise. Part of the
fun was trying to figure out who it was. Sometimes it was a popular dad, others
a teacher. I remember best the year that the principal was on the ‘hot seat.’
One of the high school kids finally dunked him.
All
the proceeds from this event went either to the individual groups or the PTA.
Most
of us went home with some sweet treat we’d bought at the bake sale.
Life
was simpler, and I truly think we had more fun.
This
year we only had eight kids at our door. And only one of them was from our neighborhood.
How sad for all of us, and how much we've lost.
Thanks for sharing your memories here with all of us. I grew up in the city, in the fifties and early sixties, and as you said, we roamed the neighborhood, going street to street and then crossing the boulevard with the police officer's help and roaming free in "the project" where one building might hold six apartments, and we knew kids in almost every building. We too filled pillowcases with candy, but most often made our own and each other's costumes. Being a hobo was easy, as we all had coal cellars and dad's fedora hats. I'm pretty sure our Halloween candy last 'til Christmas, and then Christmas candy lasted 'til Easter, and... well, you get it.
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