Friday, August 26, 2022

Princess Tea

 

Before we went to London, I promised my best friend, Kathleen’s, granddaughter, Maxine, we would have her and her parents come down to our house for a tea party, using my mom’s tea set.

When Kathleen was in the hospital in 2015, I took her a small arrangement in one of my mom’s teacups. When we were little girls, Mom used to serve us tea using her tea set. Kathleen recognized the cup.

When she passed away, her husband made sure the tea cup went to her granddaughter, Maxine.


Because of Covid, we weren’t able to get together for our tea party in 2020. However, when we returned from London, the time was right. “Tea” with my mother consisted of buttered toast and tea. However, I wanted to do the more elaborate Princess Tea like the one served at the Rubens Hotel. And I wanted to invite our great-grand niece, Everleigh, to join us with her great-grandparents.

We set the date for June 25, 2022 and sent out eVites.

I created a formal menu, just like we were given in London, printed them, and placed one at each place..



The princesses arrived right on time.


Maxine was dressed as Snow White, and Everleigh was Isabella from Encanto.

I set the dining room table with my good linen cloth and napkins—the ones my mother gave to me as a wedding shower gift over fifty-six years ago. Then I set out all the various items—ready to serve.


When we were seated, I poured tea—the freshly brewed variety. (Do you know how hard it is to find loose tea?)


They seemed to enjoy the food, as did the adults.


The week before was Everleigh’s fifth birthday, so we had cupcakes to celebrate, and her great-grandparents brought bags of favors. It turned into a birthday party!



After we ate, the girls entertained us by dancing and singing and “playing” the piano.


Casey took the girls to the backyard, where they played in the rock garden. 



And a lovely time was had by all!


The next morning, Larry said, “Watching the girls yesterday reminded me of you and Kathleen as little girls.” I realized he was right. We used to dance and sing and play for hours.

They had such a good time together, and it was as if Kathleen and I were together as girls again. And I smiled.

Friday, August 19, 2022

UK TRIP 2022 – PART XII

 May 19, 2022

Belfast to London to L.A.

We slept fitfully worried about what our day of travel would bring. We were awake well before our alarm, so we showered, dressed, and finished packing. All the dirty clothes went into my suitcase, while nearly everything else went into Larry’s. I carried most of the souvenirs and gifts, along with my computer, in my under-seat carry-on. Larry had his usual stuff and his iPad in his backpack.

We joined a large tour group in the dining room for breakfast. Then we returned to our suite to brush our teeth and make a last check before we went downstairs to check out.

Recovered our car keys and loaded the bags. Then one last trip, this time to the Belfast City Airport. Once again, Larry had written down the turn-by turn directions, and these were easy to use.

We followed the signs to the Hertz car return. No one there yet, but fortunately, there were written directions. We left the car and made our way into the terminal. We located the Hertz desk and turned in the key.

Then we tried to check in for our flight, but it was still nearly three hours before the scheduled time, and they didn’t begin check-in until two hours ahead. So, we found a place to sit and wait.

Finally, we got in line to check in. (The flight was showing a fifteen-minute delay from the schedule. Situation normal for flights on this trip.)

While we waited, we decided to check our two rolling bags all the way through to L.A. rather than put them in the overhead storage. This meant we only had to carry our under-seat bags. This turned out to be a good choice.

The actual check-in was easy and relatively quick.

Then we went through the security check with the normal hassles…

Flying is NOT fun anymore.

Just like the other flights we had been on in the UK, the departure board did not list the departure gate until right before it began boarding. So, we sat around and waited for the gate listing.

They announced the gate, but it wasn’t listed on the board. We moved with the crowd toward gate four. Finally, about five minutes later, the gate number finally appeared on the board. Fortunately, it was Gate 4.

Of course, this gate was the farthest from the waiting area.

When we arrived, they told us to have a seat since they weren’t actually ready for us. Half an hour later, they finally called for boarding. We discovered this short flight to London boarded via a stairway rather than a jetway. Once again, we were happy we had decided to check our rolling bags all the way through.

We reached Heathrow an hour later than scheduled. We were originally scheduled for a three-hour layover. But they didn’t have a gate for us.

They finally found one, but we were stuck on the plane for another half hour because the gate we had been assigned was for international flights, and our flight was domestic…

They called for “coaches” (busses) to transport us to the correct terminal where we could get our connecting flight. Of course, there was another very long walk to get to the international terminal, followed by another security check since we were now boarding an international flight.

When we finally reached the departure lounge, we discovered the flight would be delayed. (No surprise.) The gate number had been posted, so we took the connecting train to the “B” gates. It was another long hike to our gate—once again the farthest one.

Of course, when we got there, we were told to have a seat…

The flight was ultimately delayed well over an hour. Finally, they began allowing us to go down to the jetway. Thank God we were allowed to use the jetway this time, although some passengers had to use roll-up stairs. With all the walking, our decision to check our larger bags was supported. (Ours were still pretty small. Several others brought much larger bags onto the plane.)

Once again, Julie had reserved the first row at the back with only two seats on the side. Great place to sit. Just the two of us together.

Again, we watched movies during the flight. We actually saw the same ones at the same time. (Jumanji, Back to the Jungle and Super Intelligent, which we both liked.) Then we each watched different films. I sat through Licorice Pizza, which I HATED. I also watched Can You Ever Forgive Me. Interesting true story. I also started a couple of other films, which I gave up on.

We ate lunch. I gave most of mine to Larry.

Near the end of the flight, we were served another meal. Once again, Larry got a lot of mine.

Because we were near the back of the plane, we were among the last to exit. Then we had the long, long trek to passport control. It certainly went much faster than the last time we were there. We spent about two hours in 2016. This time, the lines moved quickly. We then had another long hike to baggage claim and a bit of a wait for our bags.

Larry called Danny of Angel’s Transport. He was waiting outside the airport for our call. We still had to wait about fifteen minutes for him to reach our location.

Finally, we had our bags loaded and were ready to make our way home.

About halfway there, Larry started sneezing like crazy. Fortunately, I had a pack of tissues in my purse. We both figured his hay fever was acting up. However, by the next day, it had developed into a full-blown cold. [The lady in front of us on the plane coughed quite a bit during the flight. I suspect he caught it from her.] Larry took a Covid test the next morning. It showed negative. So, it was just an ordinary cold.

By the time we got home, it was after ten o’clock the night of the 20th. Since we had put in a nearly twenty-three-hour day, we were more than ready to climb into our own bed. Boy, did it feel good!

Last Thoughts

1.    Traveling isn’t as much fun anymore. Flights are a hassle, and everything takes much longer. Every airport has different rules—the ones in Glasgow surrounding liquids were absurd.

2.    Cars were the bane of our existence on this trip. Almost nothing went right.

3.    Seeing my cousins was worth all the problems. Love them!

4.    We were able to fulfill our promise to take Kathleen’s ashes back to Ireland, and we were glad we were finally able to do it.

5.    Afternoon tea in London was a great treat.

6.    London is a great walking city. We only took the tube once, and that time mostly just so we could say we’d done it.

7.    We probably won’t be making another long trip any time soon. (But then, we say this nearly every time we come home.)

Friday, August 12, 2022

UK TRIP 2022 – PART XI

 May 19, 2022

Hill of Tara

Our room was HOT during the night. I got up a couple of times to try to reset the air conditioner. However, it didn’t work. So, on our way to breakfast, we asked to have it fixed.

Following breakfast, we returned to our room and got ready for the long drive south to the Hill of Tara. We had promised my best friend, Kathleen Murphy Stewart, we would take some of her ashes there several years before she died in 2020.



Larry was stressed even before we left, concerned about the long drive, crossing the border from Northern Ireland into the Republic of Ireland, and finding the location. Fortunately, we had Rick Steves’s maps to help a bit for this trip.

We stopped by the concierge desk and asked Philip the best way to get there. Jean and Owen had told us we would need euros for the tolls, so she gave us some. (We only had brought pounds, although we actually used few of them—mostly for our laundry.)

We had charted the route on the Rick Steves map, but it wasn’t nearly detailed enough. Once again, Larry had written the turn-by-turn directions. Philip called it up on Google Maps for us on his computer. He tried to print it out, but his printer didn’t work. He made a few notes for us of milestones to look for. Drogheda was key.

Then we finally hit the road.

The border crossing was a non-event. Just a sign along the road: Welcome to the Republic of Ireland.

As usual, the major motorways were fairly easy to follow, but when we got off those, the route became convoluted.

We followed Larry’s written instructions, but we must have made an error because we realized we were headed in the wrong direction. We pulled into a gas station and asked how to get to the Hill of Tara. Bless the clerk! He called up the turn-by-turn instructions on his phone. Then he walked us out to the road and pointed us in the right direction. He let me take a screen shot of the directions, and we were on our way again.

I fully expected we would see signs as we got close. Instead, we traveled down tiny unmarked lanes.





There were no signs at all. We finally drove through a gate into what looked like a farm yard. The only clue we had that we were in the right place was a tour van. (We couldn’t figure out how it maneuvered the very narrow roads.)

This is a major historic and cultural site and tourist attraction, so one would think there would be large signs pointing the way. Uh…no. We remembered the visitors’ center at New Grange with a wide road and direction signs. We had expected much the same at this place.

After a nearly two-hour drive, we’d found it.

The website said the visitors’ center would open on the 19th, hence our choice of the date. When we got there, however, we discovered it would not open until the 28th. Oh, well…





We followed the path and finally reached the signs on the site describing the location where Kathleen had asked us to spread some of her ashes. Her widower, Bill, had gotten them to us not long before we left home.




It was cold and blustery, but the view was beautiful. Larry just wanted me to drop them at the bottom, but I thought we should take them to the top. I placed them at the foot of the large standing stone, Lia Fáil. (Her widower later told me it was her favorite spot, so I was happy I had chosen the right place.)




As we walked back to the parking area, I picked a couple of the wildflowers from around the site. I also found two feathers and picked them up. I put them into the small envelope where her ashes had been.


We went into the tiny café for a cup of coffee. I had a lemon slice (a piece of lemon cake) and Larry had a chocolate muffin. He ordered ice cream with his. However, the waitress added ice cream and whipped cream to both of them. I gave Larry the whipped cream and about half of my ice cream. I did eat some as the cake was somewhat dry. But the coffee was delicious and warmed us up.



In the gift shop, I found a few items I wanted, including a t-shirt. Larry liked the design, so he got one, too.

Then we set out on the long journey back to Belfast. This time, we had to follow a “diversion” (detour), which bypassed the toll plaza. It took over an hour and a half each way—a total of more than three hours on the road. But we’d known this before we started out.

When we got back to our room, we discovered that nothing had been done about the air conditioning. We tried again to get it to work, but after waiting about half an hour, it was still HOT (nearly 80 degrees Fahrenheit). I called down to the desk and asked them to fix it.

They sent someone up to the room. He tried several times to get the programming to set, but he was as unsuccessful as I had been. He called down, and they said they would send up someone from maintenance.

We took the time to sort out our clothes for our return trip home, reorganize the suitcases, and get everything prepared for our flight.

After waiting for over an hour with no response, Larry went down to the desk to ask them to change our room.

He returned with the keys to the Moselle suite! WOW! This was gorgeous!

Only one night, but the accommodations were fabulous.

We didn’t spend long there, but we could get used to it!
























Friday, August 5, 2022

UK TRIP 2022 – PART X

 May 18, 2022

Coleraine to Belfast

We slept very well in one the most comfortable beds we’d had since we arrived in the UK. It was firm and cozy. We took our time showering and dressing.

Gary had a morning meeting, so we had agreed to eat about ten-thirty. Gary had told his mum he wanted her to make a real Ulster Fry for breakfast. He bragged about how hers was the best, so we were anxious to taste everything.

Once again, Jean had everything under control and refused all offers of help. So, we joined Owen in the snug.

I decided to plug in my computer and call up my Ancestry tree so I could show Gary how it worked when he arrived.

Jean called us to the table and poured tea. Their friend, Harold, often joins them for breakfast. Jean had asked him to join us.

Just as we sat down, Gary arrived.

Soon the table groaned with an amazing variety of foods.




Everything was delicious. Yep, my second cousin (once removed) is a terrific cook!

After breakfast, I showed Gary how the Ancestry tree worked and sent him the login information. He was very interested and said he would add the information for his family.

Gary had to leave, so we returned to the table. Jean brought out a bunch of documents, and I added this information to the tree. Larry photographed the documents themselves. I intended to add them when we got back home.

We took another drive down through the town of Castlerock where they pointed out the location of their guest house, now an apartment block. Then we drove to see the Mussenden Temple and the shore. So many picturesque spots!



When we got back, it was time for us to return to Belfast. We loaded our bags into the car and then exchanged lots of hugs.

Owen told us how to get back to the motorway. The return trip was much easier and faster than the trip there. By now, Larry had figured out how to get from the motorway to the hotel, despite all the one-way streets.

We checked back into the Europa. Once again, we were upgraded to the executive level.

It was dinner time, so we decided to return to the Piano Lounge for a light repast. Have I mentioned I liked this place?

I had the same salad I had ordered before. Larry had a sandwich. Good food again. Such a relaxing spot.

We returned to our room to do some writing and prepare for our long drive to the Hill of Tara the next day.